What did you get this Christmas?

I'll bet when you answered this question you probably described a gift you received. Your answer was probably something physical. Something you took from under a tree and unwrapped. But really, what did you get this Christmas besides material gifts?

Did you spend time with your family? Did you go to a mass or church service? Did you think about those who are close to you? It's so easy to overlook these important things when you've got a mystery package awaiting your inspection under the tree on Christmas.

I come from a divided family. My parents are divorced and we don't have a lot of money. Many complicated emotions play a part in how I feel during Christmas break. The holidays are really painful for me greatly because of the way my family tries to act normal eventhough it really isn't. Every Christmas I wish I could trade all of my gifts and other possessions just for one moment of freedom from pain and sadness in my heart. For me, Christmas is difficult and no material gifts could change that.

Please remember that gifts are great but they are nothing when compared to the more important things in life. Money won't buy you happiness. Gifts won't bring my family together. Life is so much more than something wrapped under a tree. It is knowing that you have a family that is not divided. As long as you think about the other things that matter, you'll escape the fate of an artificial Christmas.

Don't let materials blind you. Understand the true meaning of Christmas and appreciate what you have. Life is too short to be worried over material things. Worry about what really matters: cherished friends and family.

From: articles.student.com

last modification: 2010-12-14
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